Commissioner Amy Harding shares her journey as a Port Commissioner

Public service is one of the most challenging—and rewarding—journeys I’ve embarked on. When I was in college, I took a conscious creation class, and over the years, I’ve dedicated time to personal growth, including therapy and self-reflection. One philosophy that has stuck with me is The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, which offers principles for living with integrity and balance:

1. Be impeccable with your word – Speak with honesty and avoid using words to judge or harm.

1. Don’t take anything personally – Other people’s actions and words are often a reflection of them, not you.
2. Don’t make assumptions – Seek clarity and ask questions instead of filling in the blanks.
3. Always do your best – Your best will look different from day to day, and that’s okay.

These principles have never been more relevant than in my role as a Port Commissioner. Running for office was a humbling experience—I often felt caught in the middle of divisive politics, where being a moderate could feel isolating. After my election, I faced calls for my removal due to a perceived conflict of interest stemming from my career in commercial real estate. I quickly realized how much of a people-pleaser I had been. Managing staff turnover and navigating the transition to a five-member commission only added to the complexities. I came in with good intentions—I kept my word and gave my best effort—but I also took things personally and made assumptions that didn’t serve me or the work at hand.

Political life is demanding, but not always for the reasons people assume. Deciding on developments like a warehouse at the marine terminal or the sale of an industrial building in Lacey is a responsibility I take seriously, but making tough decisions isn’t the hardest part. I can analyze information, weigh pros and cons, and make a choice. I’ve even grown more comfortable with public criticism. But what I’ve truly learned is that The Four Agreements aren’t just helpful in personal growth—they’re essential in public service.

When I assumed colleagues were working against me, when I let anonymous Reddit comments get under my skin, I wasn’t as effective in my role. In reality, I work alongside four incredible fellow commissioners—Bob, Jasmine, Sarah, and Maggie—who are passionate about serving our community. They make courageous decisions, even when those choices are unpopular. If I had believed everything I read online about division on the commission, I might have missed that. And when the public voices frustration, it’s not always personal—many times, it’s about larger systemic issues or past grievances. As the saying goes, hurt people hurt people.

Politics has been one of my greatest teachers. The lessons I thought I had mastered have been put to the test in ways I never expected. I encourage anyone interested in both personal growth and community service to consider running for office. It’s not just an opportunity to serve—it’s a chance to grow.

P.S. Politicians are just your neighbors. Read that again.